FAQ

What is proper etiquette when meeting you?

To really make me happy, start our relationship by including your full name, phone number, place of employment (a LinkedIn link works fine)  in your first email. In substitute of your work information, two other provider references may also be used. I do need to see your ID at some point, you can either send me a photo with all sensitive information blocked out (leaving name and photo) or you can allow me to see it when I see you. If you also provide me with the time, date, and location you’d like to meet, even better!

Clear communication in introductory emails allows us to move quickly past the formalities.

If it’s an outcall, please leave my fee and your photo ID on the bathroom sink. If it’s an incall, please leave my fee and your photo ID clearly in view before excusing yourself to the bathroom to shower. At dinner or a public venue, I suggest the gift of a book or card with my fee inside. I may excuse myself to the bathroom to confirm it.

If I do not receive my payment in the beginning of our meeting, or you attempt to discuss the payment, I may leave without further explanation, and that’s no fun for either of us!

How will we communicate?

I communicate using email or texting and prefer to keep our communication primarily to scheduling. I like to focus my time on making in-person experiences as wonderful as possible.

If you’ve found me through another site, emailing me or texting me will result in a quicker response than messaging any other profile. Email keeps me organized and I’m very quick at responding. If you’d like to know more about me, I keep an instagram, and twitter that you are welcome to follow!

I’ve never done this before and I don’t have any references. Can I still see you?

I am quite newbie-friendly; there is something very enjoyable about meeting someone who is full of anticipation for their first time. It's honestly a rush knowing that I am someone's first experience in going to a provider. If you’re feeling nervous, I typically recommend a four-hour dinner date, so that we have plenty of time to get to know each other without too much pressure.

Do you see women and couples?

I love seeing both women and couples. I thoroughly enjoy another woman’s company! For couples, there is an additional $200 fee per hour. It is very important to me that both people are eager to see me, so it’s nice to hear from both people in our initial communication. I want to make sure our time spent together is enjoyable for everyone involved.

Will you visit my home?

It would be my pleasure to entertain you at your home. If it’s your first encounter with me, I may ask for additional screening to ensure my safety.

Will my forum name or P411 ID count as screening?

It would be much simpler for me to only require a P411 Okay’s or forum names or whitelists for my screening. For my safety, however, I must firmly request that I have your full name and phone number so I can screen you thoroughly. I will treat you and your information with the utmost respect and discretion.

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That being said, supplying me with your P411, TER, or other IDs in addition to the required information will help me screen you quicker and I love seeing people who are well supported by a community of providers.

I do not want to offend you – what is proper etiquette?

If you’re asking this question, chances are you wouldn’t offend me anyway! That being said, let me share with you what makes my life a little more easy and pleasurable.

Sending all your screening information in the first email is absolutely lovely. Providing your full name and phone number and either two references or your employment information allows me to confirm our meeting much more quickly! Don’t ask me anything relating to illegal activity. Be polite!

Are you kinky?

This question quite enrages me because what one person may consider to be kinky, another may not. Above all else, I seek to create an open minded and safe environment wherein people’s fantasies are fulfilled. I do enjoy several fetishes and kinks but to know if I can provide what you seek, you would have to be more specific in asking me about what you enjoy to see if our interests and "kinks" align.